This body language is all based on what researchers discovered works best in today’s western cultures. Here are the successful tactics used for men who captured the attention of their desired woman. In these five web pages, we will give you the five steps to help you get what you want, too. The five steps outlined here are greatly influenced by the tactics that have worked for men’s millions of ancestors. The modern environments are new, but the basic five steps have worked for several million years. So study this carefully then proceed to Step 2. First Make Your Entrance and…

In body language, the face is second only to the eyes in the amount of information revealed about a person. The first thing we look at when approaching a person is their face. Even at a distance, it tells us how the person feels about us. As we close the distance to speak, we watch their face to evaluate the status of our relationship. A fleeting subtle facial expression on a friend’s face can provide valuable information on the state of your immediate relationship from moment to moment. Always working is a part of the old brain called the amygdala that appraises…

So far you have given him all the right nonverbal body language cues to show that you are interested in him, and you have accepted him into your space, for now. He also proved he could carry on a decent conversation; you share some common interests, and he is socialized and not weird. He has also showed interest in what you had to say and valued your opinions. So now you want to expand on that and share more personal interests with him. How to Take a Giant Flirting Step Forward Now At this point in the connection you want to come…

Everyone has a space around their body that is held sacred as their own territory. This is called “personal space” and it is characterized by a zone or “bubble” that varies with individuals and circumstances. We each have our own unwritten rules about how big our personal space is, who may enter our personal space, and how close others may approach. Dominant animals and humans demand more space than the less dominant. How we guard and defend our personal space and how we approach or invade another person’s space, is very revealing about our relationships, status, rank, and dominance as we…

Your next move is to leave your safe space and go to her with good body language and your “opening line” so you can talk with her. Verbal communication will greatly close the physical and emotional space between you both. She wants you to approach her now, and she is waiting, so get moving! But be aware that as you walk toward her, she will learn a lot about you from your body language. Women are wired with this ability to read approaching men’s body language. By the time you reach her, she will have decided to either receive you as…

When the term Alpha Male is applied to a man, it refers to a type of man who is strong, smart, and a leader. Other males naturally respect his decisions and don’t challenge him. An Alpha Male looks and behaves in ways that make it evident that he is the leader and not to be challenged. He moves and stands in ways that show he expects to get what he wants without being questioned. The Alpha Male looks in all ways a little better than the rest of the males. He stands out as cleaner, neater, stronger, healthier, smarter, and more…

A kiss is a sign of affection that 90% of people on this planet have enjoyed. A kiss can signal “welcome”, “goodbye” and many variations of “I’m really glad to be close to you”. A kiss shared between two people generally signals a desire for more of each other’s smell, taste, and feel. Research has shown that women are stimulated faster by kissing than any other physical activity before engaging in sex. It is interesting to recognize that humans are the only species with lips that are turned outside the mouth. What we see as human lips are really part of…

Men mostly use body language cues to evaluate other men for signs of dominance and competitive advantage. In order for men to get along, there has to be an understanding of each man’s ranking in the group. Peace and harmony in the group last as long as each man accepts his hierarchical position and does not compete for a higher level – at least too openly and strongly. This complex social process is carried out mostly by unconscious body language. Each person’s status in groups is evident by their body language. It is usually easy to determine who is the dominant person…

Consider what persona you wish to convey when you go out flirting to meet a new man. Your displayed persona (how you dress and behave) will determine to a large degree which type of men would approach you. If someone dresses like either a slut or a sweet virgin, people would immediately assume one as a real look and treat accordingly. Unfortunately in environments like cabarets and bars, the place where attracting competition held, many women feel obliged to exhibit excessive sexuality. This does not allow each woman much leeway to express her real persona. Every social space has an unwritten code…