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- Both women and men have inherited very strong desires to survive and pass-on their genes to their offspring by having sex. Without this strong drive we would have become extinct long ago. Life and survival were really tough in ancient times.
- Men and women can't do it alone so they must come together. (Pun intended!)
- A woman must expend great time and energy to give birth and raise a child. To do this best she needs to attract a man to help her get pregnant and afterward to help raise the offspring. (Recently in our history, the importance of the man has been diminished in some societies where women can function independently. Even the act of impregnation can be done in the lab by a woman doctor, but the sperm must still come from a man. Men are not totally obsolete, yet!)
- Women want to have a lot of choices in men so they can get the best one. "Best" means the man who can help her make the healthiest babies then protect and support her and the children for long survival.
- Women want to have choices in men for a mate, so flirting and dating provides that opportunity. Women have inherited proven successful body language flirting techniques in their DNA to attract many men for more and better choices. (And this game is all about sex!)
- Men must compete with other men for a woman's acceptance. Therefore men must "court" a woman in order to get accepted as her mate. (There is a huge amount of research data on men and sperm competition -- but that is another story.)
- In nearly all the species the ultimate decision for which male is accepted to be the offspring's father is the decision of the female.
- Female body language to attract males primarily displays this message: "I am a healthy female and you may approach me to make babies."
- The male's body language is one of the primary factors guiding the female's choice of mate in most species. Females in species that bond, mostly they look for strength, protection, and caring. Human females call this "a good relationship". (Some researchers have claimed that human survival in the past worked this way: Men traded food for sex. Women traded sex for food.")
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