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Additional Content for Step 5: How to Keep the Passion Burning

About Kissing

His first kiss planted on your lips (if his aim is good) is truly one of the best free thrills in nature. A surge of hormones will blast out of his brain (maybe yours too) to all parts of his body, gearing him up for more action. If it is one of those deep kisses, then he is going to receive some of your hormones that will make him dizzy and something in his belly will turn flips. His limbic system, which controls bodily functions like breathing, pulse, perspiration, etc., will kick in to overdrive. You will even look, taste, smell, sound and feel better to him, because some of his brain chemicals have changed his perception of reality. That is called "love" by most people - and "lust" by others.

Physiological changes take place all over the body from kissing. Sensitivity and pleasure feelings increase throughout the body. Even the feeling of pain is suppressed everywhere in the body. There is some justification for when you were young and your mom "kissed" your injury that was hurting to make the pain go away.

Kissing with a lover makes wonderful tensions increase and there is an overpowering craving for release and satisfaction. This wonderful, (add your own descriptive words here) pleasure and relief from the mating act is the powerful drive that has kept the species from dying off. Without this extremely pleasurable experience of mating we probably would not go through the effort and trouble of producing, protecting, and providing for offspring.

Kissing has become a major part of the flirting, dating, and mating process in most cultures. Wise men know that kissing is the fastest way to get a woman stimulated for further action. Research shows most women complain of not getting enough kissing before, during, and after sex.

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