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Touch messages go directly to the brain

Flirting women use touch when they are ready to let the man come closer emotionally and physically. She will touch him first on the arm because it is the least sexual area. Her flirting touch is a true art that is intended to send him this message:

"At this point in our brief relationship I now feel safe and like you enough that I want you to come A LITTLE closer emotionally and physically."
"I touch you gently and I want you to be gentle with me." A playful touch says, "Come closer and be playful. I want to play with you."

Touching is women's secret weapon.

Women use touch to get a man's attention. An experienced woman flirter knows that her touch on a man instantly connects to his primal instincts in his old brain limbic system. The stronger and more obvious her touch is on him, the more response she can expect back from him. Therefore, to avoid more response from the man than is desired, a woman has to be very casual and minimal with her touch. Most young women learn early in life how to use touch on young guys to get what they want.

Many men misinterpret a woman's touch because there is very different programming in men's old brain limbic system. To most men, at their deepest limbic system level, a touch from a woman means (at least he hopes) that she is ready for more really hot touching and sex right now! Some women think all men are like that so they withhold ALL touching.

Here are some subtle touching tactics to get a man's attention fast, but they do not send a signal that the door is completely opened for him to charge full speed into your space to jump on her bones:

'Accidentally' get in his way and let him bump into you. Be sure to let him have a good solid impact on your softest parts. Don't expect much apology because his brain will be scrambled and trying to restart!
'Accidentally' move your hands into his way as he reaches for something. A momentary skin-to-skin contact will trigger a shot of hormones in his body. To test this, just watch for his eye pupils to instantly dilate (get larger).
Hand him things and make sure your hands 'casually' touch his in the exchange. Takes a little practice to make it look 'accidental' but he won't care how it happened.

Summary for women's touching techniques

A woman's touch is a powerful tool that can get powerful responses from most healthy men.
Touching done correctly is one of the fastest ways to accelerate a relationship.
Women use a subtle and often 'accidental' touch to signal a man that he can come A LITTLE closer.
Women's technique of subtle and casual touching is an art form that has developed over eons to get a man's attention.

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